A bit of a heavy topic, maybe…. But real for everyone at some stage.
Working with four estates this year and seeing firsthand what people are spending over the time of the passing of their family member, I see the immediate and direct costs and processes that are required. Some of you will also have seen these yourselves, dealing with someone in the family.
The first and immediate requirement is to call a Funeral Home. After collection, they deal with your doctor’s signatures on the Death Notice and they deal with Home Affairs for you, to obtain the Death Certificate.
But they might want payment upfront, for everything: Their service, the above services, the cremation fee, and your choice of coffin. This I have seen to be between R19,000 and R23,000. Someone in the family has to come up with this amount of money before anything will continue. You can be refunded from the Estate for these costs – a typical practice – but that cash might not come back until the Estate is ready to be closed. Could take a year or three. But someone still has to have the money straight away.
Then, a memorial service can vary. You might get the church hall for free, or you might need to rent a venue. Platters of eats can be ordered from your local Spar, or people might donate food. You might be wanting an open tab for a Wake at the local pub…. The varied options might cost anywhere between R5,000 and R20,000. And again, someone has to have the ability to pay this within the first week or so of the passing of your loved one.
Does this look possible, in your own circle, that someone has the cash flow to pay up to R40,000?
I know a funeral policy will help here. However, the Death Certificate is required for that payout, and therefore funds still need to found upfront.
As I said, not a great topic. Sorry. But so real.